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Hi Members!

I would like to introduce you to a really GREAT site for online dating advice called is your authoritative guide to all things dating!  They post great articles and advice as well as info and links to some popular dating sites that prove to have good results as far as connecting people and helping them find their perfect match.  The experts at the site help guide you through the ins and outs of dating and relationships.

Please do check out  I believe you will find the site very helpful with your online dating experience.


Robin D.

admin Nov 14 '17

Robin DeLuca, the creator of for sober singles looking for a site devoted to sober dating, support or friendship is also the author of The Original Cyber-Dating Guru’s Guide to Online Dating.  Robin is the #1 original online dating Guru. Since 1998 she has received over 5,000 email responses to her online personal ads and has helped thousands to find love and romance.


By sharing her expertise and own experiences throughout the years you will find The Original Cyber-Dating Guru’s Guide to Online Dating to be an essential tool in your pursuit of online dating and to help you approach it in a fun (and painless) way. 

The Original Cyber-Dating Guru’s Guide to Online Dating is as amusing as it is practical as Robin shares with you some of her own online dating adventures including samples from emails received from men throughout the years, which will also help you to understand what not to write in your own emails. 

Online dating is the proven and chosen way today for people to meet their match or soul mate and with Robin’s assistance, it will prove to be successful, exciting and fun!

There are many other helpful dating extras you will find in this book including a handy chart to help you decipher through both men’s and women's online personal ads.

Besides being the creator of for sober singles, Original Online Dating Guru, Robin is the creator and owner of several online dating sites including sites devoted to dating sober and singles in recovery…, and  The sites have been very successful for sober singles to find same for sober dating, friendship, and love. is not only for sober singles or sober dating in 12 Step programs, it is for anyone living a sober lifestyle.

Robin also created a site devoted to those living with Hepatitis C called The Original Cyber-Dating Guru’s Guide to Online Datingis the #1 online dating guide, for both men and women, from the #1 Online Dating Guru! 

The book can be found and purchased at for Kindle readers or in paperback at this link:


The Original Cyber-Dating Guru’s Guide to Online Dating is the #1 online dating guide, for both men and women, from the #1 Online Dating Guru! 

admin Sep 17 '17

Dear Members, 

Our site here at SoberSinglesDate is the LARGEST sober dating community and we do offer more features than ANY sober dating site and in fact more features than some of the "big boys", i.e.  One of the special features we offer is LIVE VIDEO CHAT!  And if you are in recovery you can search for members by your own 12 Step Program.

Although we are a relatively NEW Sober Dating site running on state-of-the-art, easy to navigate dating software we have over 45,000 members (many have migrated over from our sister site at and we have been very successful in bringing sober singles together for many years now at as well as at (devoted to sober singles in recovery with over one year's sobriety time).  We also have a site devoted to the LGBT Community called

Please log in and perform a search to find local sober singles in your area.  Or search across the country.  You can also search for sober singles by your own 12 Step Program if you are in a program of recovery. Search for AA Singles, NA Singles, GA Singles, Al-Anon Singles...whatever program of recovery you are in.  

I'm confident you will enjoy your membership with us and hope you meet someone special! 

Warm regards, 

Robin D.

admin Jul 25 '17


This is Robin D., the creator of  I am thrilled to have you join us at our NEW sober dating site for sober singles with EXCITING new features no other sober dating site offers including Instant Instant Message and Video Chat!  

We have been successful in migrating over 40,000 sober singles from our sister site at as well as new members joining daily.  Our site has more Sober Singles than other sober dating sites combined!

Our sister sites at and are devoted mostly towards singles in 12 Step Programs of recovery where you can narrow down your searches to your own personal 12 Step Program.  Our site here at SoberSinglesDate is for ANYONE choosing to live a clean and sober lifestyle or who basically just doesn't drink or drug and prefers to date others of same.  However, our members who ARE in 12 Step Programs can still have the option in our Advanced Search feature to search for other members by their 12 Step Program.

This first blog of mine here at the site is to encourage all members of 12StepMatch members as well as new members, to navigate around the site and get familiar with it.  The dating software I chose to operate this site is very user-friendly and I'm confident you will enjoy your membership with us.

After you register please be sure to adjust your spam/junk mail settings to allow emails from and if you do not receive your registration email in your inbox that is most likely where it will be.

I am certain that we will continue to be very successful in bringing sober singles together as we have for the past nine years at  Please be sure to email me at with your "Success Stories"!  I love to read them and will share them here on our blog but will keep all personal information (as far as legal names, etc.) anonymous.

For our sober singles in the LGBTQ community please join us at

And always remember, "Keep Your Sobriety First in Order to Make it Last!

Warm regards,

Robin D.

P.S. FOR 12STEPMATCH MEMBERS ONLY:  Regarding username and passwords...Your username and passwords are the same as they are from  The only difference is if your username had two names they names are now merged together as one so that is how you would enter it. If you choose to use two words you must use an underscore in between them, i.e. Sober_Sally. If you forgot your username or password from 12StepMatch then go to the site and where you would login on the Home Page you simply click "Forgot my password".

admin Jul 6 '17

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