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Dear Members, 

Our site here at SoberSinglesDate is the LARGEST sober dating community and we do offer more features than ANY sober dating site and in fact more features than some of the "big boys", i.e.  One of the special features we offer is LIVE VIDEO CHAT!  And if you are in recovery you can search for members by your own 12 Step Program.

Although we are a relatively NEW Sober Dating site running on state-of-the-art, easy to navigate dating software we have over 40,000 members (many have migrated over from our sister site at and we have been very successful in bringing sober singles together for many years now at as well as at (devoted to sober singles in recovery with over one year's sobriety time).  We also have a site devoted to the LGBQT Community called

Please log in and perform a search to find local sober singles in your area.  Or search across the country.  You can also search for sober singles by your own 12 Step Program if you are in a program of recovery. Search for AA Singles, NA Singles, GA Singles, Al-Anon Singles...whatever program of recovery you are in.  

I'm confident you will enjoy your membership with us and hope you meet someone special! 

Warm regards, 

Robin D.

admin Jul 25


This is Robin D., the creator of  I am thrilled to have you join us at our NEW sober dating site for sober singles with EXCITING new features no other sober dating site offers including Instant Instant Message and Video Chat!  

We have been successful in migrating over 30,000 sober singles from our sister site at as well as new members joining daily.  Our site has more Sober Singles than other sober dating sites combined!

Our sister sites at and are devoted mostly towards singles in 12 Step Programs of recovery where you can narrow down your searches to your own personal 12 Step Program.  Our site here at SoberSinglesDate is for ANYONE choosing to live a clean and sober lifestyle or who basically just doesn't drink or drug and prefers to date others of same.  However, our members who ARE in 12 Step Programs can still have the option in our Advanced Search feature to search for other members by their 12 Step Program.

This first blog of mine here at the site is to encourage all members of 12StepMatch members as well as new members, to navigate around the site and get familiar with it.  The dating software I chose to operate this site is very user-friendly and I'm confident you will enjoy your membership with us.

After you register please be sure to adjust your spam/junk mail settings to allow emails from and if you do not receive your registration email in your inbox that is most likely where it will be.

I am certain that we will continue to be very successful in bringing sober singles together as we have for the past nine years at  Please be sure to email me at with your "Success Stories"!  I love to read them and will share them here on our blog but will keep all personal information (as far as legal names, etc.) anonymous.

For our sober singles in the LGBTQ community please join us at

And always remember, "Keep Your Sobriety First in Order to Make it Last!

Warm regards,

Robin D.

P.S. FOR 12STEPMATCH MEMBERS ONLY:  Regarding username and passwords...Your username and passwords are the same as they are from  The only difference is if your username had two names they names are now merged together as one so that is how you would enter it. If you choose to use two words you must use an underscore in between them, i.e. Sober_Sally. If you forgot your username or password from 12StepMatch then go to the site and where you would login on the Home Page you simply click "Forgot my password".

admin Jul 6

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